I’m not talking about a body function so you can safely keep reading. I came across another book written by Olliver D’Mille (The writer of the “Thomas Jefferson education”), it explained the Phases of the Leadership education. The section for Core and Love of Learning talking about getting rid of things that clutter up your life, freeing yourself from their burdens so you can focus on more importing things like learning. So I have decided to purge my house of unnecessary items. This is quit hard and is taking me a while. I come across something and some part of me always says, “What if you need it later? You better not get rid of it” Truth be told I might need it later but will the need be great or insignificant. That is how I have to fight to not keep the item.
So far I have sent 8 garbage bags and 3 large boxes to local charities. I have also thrown away a few garbage cans full of trash. I have decided that accumulating things is a disease for me. The few rooms I have completed (Master bed and bath, Children’s room, Toy room and Main bathroom) are more pleasant to be in even if I didn’t get around to cleaning them that week.
The book also recommended purging my schedule. This one hasn’t been as easy. (Not that purging the house is easy either but in comparison.) My first step has actually been trying to put my day into an order. (House of Order) Jet has been a great help here. She came up with Day Charts. The ideal smooth running day is on the Day Chart and we mark off what we complete. The key is no guilt for what didn’t get complete. I am trying to train myself not tare myself down. I instead focus on what I have done. This is slowly working. I believe if I persevere through this crazy time of year learning to use the word “no” I may finally discipline myself. After all these years of not really knowing how but wanting to be that way! I can’t wait to over come my weakness.